Too often, we misjudge, misinterpret, misunderstand things. For no absolute reason. We never stop eating chocolates just because one turned out to be bitter, do we? Then what's this uncanny phenomenon of never putting yourself out there when something hurts, when someone betrays, when something goes wrong?
Why is this sudden urge to never expect or expect all the wrong things? Till a point where suddenly expecting the worst feels right. Because it feels so damn good when things turn out to be better than whatever is going on in our minds.
It's a stupid move. It really is. There's a difference between knowing what can damage you and rooting for your own damage. Sometimes it's great to see the positive. To expect the good. To trust people, love people and just live a peaceful life. No conspiracies, no theories.
We only believe what we want to believe. It took me a little longer to realise my life was way more awesome. The only setback was in my imagination. I had developed the habit of underestimating , making worse possible scenarios and what not. It's pointless. You can never live happily until there is a treaty amongst both worlds. The one you live in and the one who want to live in, it's somewhere hidden in your imagination. That's where all expectations are manufactured. I've decided to make a change. To expect all the good things in life. I mean maybe it could get me hurt, but, bring it on! I'd prefer being hurt for real than just be sad because I don't want to get hurt.
We have to let it go. Because feeling of uneasiness and fear when it comes to making a change, stands nowhere near the ecstasy and peace when you feel the change happening inside you.
We have to let it go because we might make a mistake. It can be good hidden somewhere. The next time you want to believe something your brain makes up, just remember in the time we misjudge and misinterpret and misunderstand things, we do MISS out a lot of our life.
And I don't know about you, but I don't want to lose anything anymore
Why is this sudden urge to never expect or expect all the wrong things? Till a point where suddenly expecting the worst feels right. Because it feels so damn good when things turn out to be better than whatever is going on in our minds.
It's a stupid move. It really is. There's a difference between knowing what can damage you and rooting for your own damage. Sometimes it's great to see the positive. To expect the good. To trust people, love people and just live a peaceful life. No conspiracies, no theories.
We only believe what we want to believe. It took me a little longer to realise my life was way more awesome. The only setback was in my imagination. I had developed the habit of underestimating , making worse possible scenarios and what not. It's pointless. You can never live happily until there is a treaty amongst both worlds. The one you live in and the one who want to live in, it's somewhere hidden in your imagination. That's where all expectations are manufactured. I've decided to make a change. To expect all the good things in life. I mean maybe it could get me hurt, but, bring it on! I'd prefer being hurt for real than just be sad because I don't want to get hurt.
We have to let it go. Because feeling of uneasiness and fear when it comes to making a change, stands nowhere near the ecstasy and peace when you feel the change happening inside you.
We have to let it go because we might make a mistake. It can be good hidden somewhere. The next time you want to believe something your brain makes up, just remember in the time we misjudge and misinterpret and misunderstand things, we do MISS out a lot of our life.
And I don't know about you, but I don't want to lose anything anymore
That is something I always think of, expectations. I don't usually get such a beautiful piece to read but this one's worth it.
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